[This are my responds to some of the comments on my previous posts]

[crooked arrows can't be straighten but a straight arrow can be "crooked" just the way you want it. And, there's no way a bad boy is going to be good too]

For this statement, I would add on something. People don't change, if there is no way a bad boy is going to be good; the same principle would have apply to "there is no way a good boy to be a bad". Cuz this world exist on "ying-yang" philosophy. If you disagree with it, question is, is it a FACT then "a bad boy can't be a good boy"?

I think you missed out on something. You can change a person’s attitude, the way he acts, the superficial stuffs but you can never change a person’s heart. Not by choice. What I meant by changing a good boy is only changing the way he acts, the superficial stuffs, but his good heart is still intact. I do not condone a good boy turning into a bad guy just to get women. No, that was not what I meant.

What I meant was to have a good guy changing the way he acts around women. Women are attracted to bad guys in general not because they are attracted to his rotten heart but because of the way a bad boy generally acts, the persona. Once a good guy has learned the "way of the bad boys" his good heart is still very much the same. A good guy and a bad boy who act the same but one has a good heart and another has got a rotten heart. Who would you choose?

As for your yin and yang philosophy, it can’t be applied to everything. It’s just a philosophy of balance and I personally don’t think it applies here. From what I believe, yin and yang means that, if there is white, then there has to be black somewhere. It doesn’t mean that if you can do something this way, then you can do it the other way round too. If you were to apply it to everything, then if time is moving forward, that means it could also move backward but it can’t. If I am growing old, then I should too be able to grow younger but can I? Don’t think so ;)

I did not say that a good boy should be a bad boy. The quote you took was taken out of context. What I said in that particular post was changing the way a good boy acts, his persona, his personality and not his heart. A good boy’s heart should always remain good.

Changing the way a person acts is possible. You can learn how to speak softly, speak loudly, how to treat a woman and what to say to a woman. But you can’t change a person’s heart or a person’s internal belief. And I agree that people do not change. People say they change all the time but inside, they are still the same. You can change the outside but you can’t change the inside. That is why a nice guy is the better choice because he has a good inside and the outside; well, you can take your time changing it if you want.

That is why I suggested that, if a girl wants to change a guy then change a nice guy. Don’t change a bad boy because you can’t change his rotten heart. You can make a "chau taufu" from a perfectly fresh "taufu" but can u make a fresh "taufu" from a "chau taufu"? You can change the way both "taufu" look on the serve plate so they both look exactly the same but you can’t change the kind of "taufu" they already are.

Ok, now I feel like eating "taufu-fa"

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I was just wondering...why did he not just poor the alcohol onto the ice?...would of saved a lot of time..prolly would have melted the ice quicker and he wouldn't feel so gross...just a thought :)

1. He’s trapped for 4 days with no food but the 60 bottle of beers. It’s proven that a person can stay alive for a week without food but not without water. So it’s wise for him to drink it and make use of what that’s coming out later.
2. Piss is warm if not hot, especially when it’s mixed with alcohol. Cold water does not melt ice as good as warm water. You care more about the gross part or you care more about surviving?
3. And the most important of all, he IS a man. And no man should waste his beer.

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to some extend, human being prone to think of mistakes more than they realise what is the ingredients that encourage mmistakes to be born. oftenly, we stimulate our god dam brain to think nothign in particular which eventually leads to sorrow, laughter or even paranoids or phobias! briefly speaking, this is being labeled as thinking too much.

Some of it makes some sense and some did not. And I don’t even know how or where to start. You say think nothing in particular and then you say think too much. To think of nothing in particular does not leads to sorrow or laughter or phobias or anything. On the contrary, it’s when you think too much of something in particular that you will get those feelings. If you are thinking of nothing in particular then you shouldn’t be feeling anything because you are practically thinking of something that doesn’t matter.

I believe you have your own reason for saying what you say. So I’m going to respect that. My argument ends here.