Open response for StarMag, July 25, page 24, Dear Thelma column, “Wife not what he expects”. 

Perfect example of why men/women got married for the wrong reason. And most of the time, it’s the man who suffers. At the end of his (the husband) letter, he asked, “Am I expecting too much?” Well, I’m gonna answer that since Thelma did not answer it. You have all the rights to expect that much. My advice, get a divorce. Or at least tell her that you are contemplating divorce. That might scare her enough to change. Otherwise, she has to go.

She’s a bum. She’s a bad example for the kids. Direct quote “my wife sleeps late ever day and wakes up early only if she has too. As a result, she is grossly overweight and lacks energy. Our sex life is lukewarm”. Lukewarm is an understatement. Get a divorce or get her to change. Otherwise, you might end up having an affair. And that would be nasty. And she might get a divorce from you with that reason and take everything you have.

Bottom-line, your wife is a walking health hazard. It’s acceptable to keep things that u do not need (like a 49” plasma TV) but it’s actually stupid to keep someone who only knows how to sleep, eat and at the same time, not pleasant to look at, a bad example for the kids and basically, a waste of natural resources.

Just imagine for a second what would happen if the roles were to be reversed. The wife would have got a divorce together with the house, car, money and kids. The world favors women and that’s the way it is. Women can even get away with murder with just 3 words, Pre Menstrual Syndrome (PMS). It DID happened before. So are women really victims? Go figure.

*my personal opinion on why they got married in the first place is that it was all an accident. He said in his letter that he’s married for 12 years and his 2 kids are aged 12 and 9. So there’s a huge possibility that it was indeed an accident. I guess shotgun marriage is the way to go these days.