You're going out on a date with a woman. You ask her where she would like to go for dinner. She doesn't give you an answer, and seems to be indifferent. 
 
So you ask her what her favorite restaurant is. She says "well, I really like this one particular place, but it's up to you". You say "but I really want to take you to the place tat you'd like to go... you decide". 
 
You can hear in her voice that she's actually beginning to get annoyed. This confuses you, since you're just trying to find out what she wants so you can give it to her. 
 
You finally decide to just take her to her favorite place, since... well... duh, it's her favorite place, so she's obviously going to enjoy it. 
 
As the evening goes on, you can sense that she's in a bad mood, but you can't understand why or how this could be. The evening ends on a bad note, even though you went out of your way to make it nice for her.
 
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Why is it that sometimes, when you're trying your very damn best to be nice, considerate, honest, open, and respectful, women disrespect you and run? 

You can ask a woman what she wants, take her to her favorite restaurant, tell her how you feel about her, and at the end she gets –annoyed- at you. 

It's because you made a bigger mistake while you were trying to be nice. When you asked her what she wanted to do, you put her in control. This is annoying to women. When you couldn't make up your mind where to take her, and wound up taking her to her favorite restaurant, you demonstrated that you can't lead. Again, by being nice and considerate in one way, you were actually making a huge mistake on another level. 

Attraction isn't a choice. We don't go through a logical decision-making process and carefully consider who we're going to be attracted to. This explains alot why women are attracted to jerks and not nice guys. Being nice just doesn't cut it.

I'm not saying that you should treat women badly. You just hv to understand the psychology of the situation and the psychology of attraction and know how to handle the situations.