*taken from a survey

Listen up, ladies! Men love it when you:
 
20. Have the ability to tease, be playful and able to take a joke
19. Know that men are not, in fact, from Mars, and women are not from Venus
18. Wear our T-shirts and boxers
17. Call us out of the blue (if we're dating; not if we're practically strangers)
16. Kiss creatively
15. Have a social conscience and enjoy a good debate
14. Have an easy-going attitude about watching or participating in athletic events occasionally
13. Are comfortable leading the whole way in bed.
12. Ask for advice about non-stereotypically male stuff (yes, guys usually know what CD player  to buy, but we like to be taken seriously about other things too)
11. Are charming and thoughtful to his mother
10. Can hold up your hair using only a pencil
9. Are sexy and smart at the same time -- for example, you do the Sunday crossword wearing a pair of flirty pajamas
8. Have the ability to remind us what gifts you like, without implying an obligation
7. Have a spirit of independence, but one that doesn't make the man in your life feel unnecessary
6. Know the difference between flirting and just ''being friendly''
5. Eat a big meal and fearlessly order dessert
4. Take naps next to us
3. Send us flowers (believe it or not, men like getting flowers, too!)
2. Know what you want
1. Know what you want to do