I came across this article recently. It’s actually on how to identify high self-esteem women and how to deal with them. But I’ve taken it out of its original context because the point I am trying to make here is not to teach people how to identify high self-esteem women but is to illustrate the distinction between high and low self-esteem women.

The article is long even after I’ve taken out all the unnecessary stuffs so if you have any problem understanding it, READ IT AGAIN. Read it until you have the full understanding of what the article says. Make sure you get the meaning of each word, check the dictionary if you have too (I did that). Personally, I believe this article to be very true and important and that everyone should read it.

All this while I find that women with confidence to be very attractive. Not that it’s not true but I realized that I have been using the wrong word all along. It should have been self-esteem instead of confidence. And come to think of it, women with high self-esteem are actually better than women with high confidence in most cases. High confidence women could sometimes turn out to be a bitchy feminist who can’t lose but women with high self-esteem on the other hand are actually very nice. One can fake confidence but not self-esteem.

I’m not being judgmental here but I do believe that some women really should be aware on why they are doing all the wrong things every time. Why they always do things that are against their own best interest. They always say that they want a nice guy but when presented with an option between a nice guy and an asshole, they are more likely to go for the asshole.

Not that by merely reading an article it would change anything but for those who have kids, at least it could come as some help for their daughters (and sons) to have a healthy self-esteem.

Here’s the .:.article.:.

Read this after you finish reading the article first.

The only drawback of Daddy’s Girls is that they are hard to please. They expect to be treated like princess like how her father used to treat her. They might even throw unreasonable tantrums out of the blue. They drive guys crazy with frustrations. Most guys will bow down to it and admit defeat when it wasn’t even his fault to begin with. Daddy’s Girl wants a guy like daddy. Treat them right like daddy do and bust them on their unreasonable behaviors just like daddy would. There’s actually another way in dealing with Daddy’s Girl according to the article but for safety reasons I decided to omit it.

I vouch for each and every word on the article. It’s true in every sense especially the last paragraph. Btw, I got no sisters incase if you think that I made a comparison between the article and my sisters. I vouch for the article based on what I know and what I’ve seen. I’ve seen a lot of examples on girls doing things that they shouldn’t have and I couldn’t really figure out why. This article is not the answer but at least it gives a better understanding (on why some girls always do things against their best interest).

Between a 10 with low self-esteem and a 7 with high self-esteem, I’d take the 7 any day.