The comment below originated from me “feeling soft hence the crap” post.

Well... i used to think i wanted to get married and have children by the time i was 21 but... i seriously doubt thats gonna happen. i still have three years though, which is one more than you. and i have a back up plan. i have a guy who's willing to marry me by the age of thirty if we both aint married, and if he happens to be married, i have another back up plan for age thirty five.i'm actually facing a similar problem in terms of commitment and all that mooshy shit. cest la vie dearie.. cest la vie.
*haha i'm listening to louis armstrong what a wonderful world... lalala happy happy gay gay.

No offence but don’t you think 21 is a bit too young to be married? Personally, I think girls (and guys for that matter) aged between 18 and 22 are not “ting sing” (I don’t know how to explain this in English, its Cantonese btw) enough to get married. Settling down "till death do us part" at such a young age is a high-risk proposition, don’t you think? I do hope you don’t get married before you are at least 25, for your own good *grin*

Well, glad to hear you’ve got backup plans *grin*. Actually, I did think of such backup plan too. But then I saw this TV show (Ed) where 2 lawyers agreed to marry each other if both of them aren’t married by the age of 35. So when the day comes (both 35 and not yet married), the girl decided not to go along with it. So the guy sued the girl in court (both of them actually signed a pre-marital agreement since they were both law students at that time). So that got me thinking, what if I have a change of heart and don’t want to get married with that girl? What if I am not ready to get married yet? Or maybe by then I would have lost faith in marriage all together.

But I think I’ll make a backup plan for age 70 thou *laugh*. Now the problem is finding a willing taker *sigh*

p/s: it’s been a while since I last saw someone use the word dearie :) And thanks for your compliment you posted on the other comment.