a fren suggested me to do it
Yesterday, a friend gave me a link to an article titled “When Women Cheat”. I read it and then I gave her my opinion on it. And she asked me to write back to the author of the article. And me being someone who got something to say about anything, I wrote back a response and mailed it to the author.
The response is just my personal opinion. I do not write the response because I think the author was wrong or trying to prove something. No. I wrote it because I believe in sharing opinions (and my friend suggested me to). Different people see things in different perspectives. What I perceive as a white may be black to you. So there’s no right or wrong.
So if anyone who does not agree with my writings, feel free to let me know why. Just don’t call me names like chauvinistic bugger, anti-woman-jackass, or things like that without giving me a reason why I deserve to be called such. I am seriously a very nice person actually. Really.
Here’s the link to the article.
And this is my response mail to the article.
The reason why I am not putting this directly on my blog is because it’s kind of long and I don’t want it to mess up me blog’s lovely appearance. *laugh*
posted by [ noodlez ] | [ 5:08 PM
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Kim here (narqueliekim: knife-throwing rip-off, remember? *grin*)
me view: if i were even thinking about cheating, there's something wrong with the relationship, therefore i'd try to fix it. If it's non-fixable, or I still feel like cheating after tyring to fix it - the relationship's non-salvagable. Dump the guy and just do the "cheating" openly (which technically means it wouldnt be cheating anymore)
However, both parties have to be equally answerable if (and when) they cheat. no difference as to whether it's the male or female. People who think that it's easier for guys to succumb to cheating (and therefore are more excusable than women who cheat) have shit for brains.
Bottomline: people who really do love each other would never cheat. [an echo of what u just said, i know, but just wanted to air my views ;-)]
p/s: have u watched House of Flying Daggers? Reinforces my idea that it's useful to be able to throw knives, huh? *grin*
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Anonymous, at August 9, 2004 at 10:41 PM
Of coz I remember you, the girl who stopped replying my mail because I called her a rip-off. And she asked me to go kiss an orc too. *grin*
Biologically speaking, both male and female have the same possibility to succumb to cheating. I agree. But if you look deeper, there’s actually a difference in how male and female succumb to cheating. To get a male to cheat, just undress in front of him and start touching him. He’ll be set to go. For female on the other hand, you need to do more work. You need to give them a “reason”. You have to make it in a way that the woman feels that it’s the “right” thing to do at that moment. Women just can’t sleep with others just like that because they will feel bad about themselves (or something like that). They need a “reason” to justify it for themselves.
So when people think that men are easier to succumb to cheating, it’s actually true to an extent. The effort is takes to get a man to cheat is lesser than getting a women to cheat. Men do not need a “reason” like women do. Couple that with testosterone, and it’s even easier for man to succumb to cheating.
Testosterone is a powerful sex hormone, and it surges through a man's bloodstream like liquid fire, consuming him with lust. Its effect is truly seismic, he lives at the mercy of an inexorable craving to touch and caress. If you were to be injected with testosterone, you’ll begin to wonder how some guys are able to control it.
p/s: actually waiting for you to bring me to watch it. who better to watch the movie with if not with someone who’s obsessed with throwing knifes *grin*
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noodlez, at August 10, 2004 at 7:07 PM
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