found this from some websites, it's actually a transcipt from Ally McBeal

(Ling defending herself when her mud-wrestling club is being sued)
Ling : The idea that it degrades women is ridiculous. Every woman wants to be thought of as desirable. Imagine, they can go home at night and say "Even in mud, I look good!"
Nelle: You have to admit this activity does objectify them?
Ling : So?
Nelle: Ling, how can it not be a little degrading, women stranding around in bathing suits ? Guys whooping?
Ling : First, the women there make nearly a hundred thousand dollars a year. How? These drunken Neanderthals hurl money at them. Go into that club. You come out with a lower opinion of men, trust me.
Nelle: That could be true, but these girls do make that money with their bodies.
Ling : They make it, by teasing men with something they'll never get their hands on. That goes to the very essence of a woman.
Nelle: Excuse me?
Ling : Sex is a weapon. We all use it, we taunt, we tantalize, we withhold it, something we do in almost every walk of life, be it marriage, business... God gave us that advantage by giving men the dumb stick.

The last statement from Ling was priceless! I couldn’t hv said it any better. When it comes to anything sexual, men do think with the dumb stick. No denying about tat. Couple tat with the testosterone we hv, it’s hard not to think with the dumb stick. True to its name, thinking with the dumb stick does yield unfavorable results.

The very essence of a woman; teasing men with something they’ll never get their hands on. They tease with the soft touches, those dreamy eyes, the cleavage, sexual innuendos and many more. But once a guy starts to make sexual moves, BAM!, it’s all over. They will say that men do not respect them, that sex is the only thing men ever want. It’s an obvious trap but men still fall for it, why u may ask. 2 words, dumb stick.

Men are really astounding suckers. Some (most?) men got married because of the wrong reasons and they don’t even know it. Try go out with some married guys for a couple of beers and when they are drunk, ask them this, “If it wasn’t for the kids, would u get a divorce?” You might be surprise with the answer.

Sex is a weapon. Every woman knows tat and they use it all the time. Prostitutes use it to make a living. Other women use it to close business deals, get favors, free drinks on a night out, entertainment, and to get sugar and spice and everything nice. With a prostitute, it’s an honest transaction. You get what u pay. But with the others, it’s everything but honest.

Average women use sex as a tool. They tease with it, they tantalize with it and the worst of all, they withhold it until they get their way. Average women do not sleep around; they just give out a false sense of promise and prospect of sex to get what they want. Unlike their ethical sisters, the prostitutes who deal in honest transactions, average women hardly complete the transactions.