Saw something interesting on the papers today. An article titled “he doesn’t have to be mr. perfect”. How many times have u heard these statements?

“I always end up with the wrong man”
“all the men I meet are either boring or married”

Most men find Diane, 28, desirable and she’s never without a relationship. Yet she always seems to attract men who are independent, self-centered, emotionally closed and unwilling to make the last commitment.

So Diane decides to find a more open and sensitive man and find just tat in Neil, 30, an architect. As they grew closer, Neil confided in her about certain career insecurities and often told Diane how much he cared for her and needed to feel close to her. Rather than enjoying his openness, Diane found herself pulling away, and to justify her decision doing so, she exclaimed, “I guess I just got bored”.

Women don’t simply “end up” with men who are wrong for them. Rather, the women who make these complaints have chosen men who can’t make them happy.

Smart women still look and hope for the perfect man – the prince. But truth is, there’s always something wrong with every man. One way women mask the futile quest for perfection is by being overly-critical. Each man, no matter how interesting, intelligent or considerate, is ultimately rejected. At first, sensitivity in a man is attractive but soon after, a sensitive man will ultimately be seen as a “weak man”.

Everyone thought Will would be the one to win her love. “He makes me laugh more than any man I can remember,” she told her friends. Yet, after a few months, Elizabeth slowly withdrew from him, complaining he was “not imaginative” in bed

End words from the article -
Take a second or even a third look at the man you’re tempted to ignore. He may not be drop dead gorgeous. He may be an awkward conversationalist. But he may possess great possibilities, truly a “diamond in the rough”. You may even discover, to your surprise, that you like him.

My 2 cents -
Sex before love. A guy may be a sweetheart and all that but if he sucks in bed, it will inevitably end. And if you think having a big “package” is enough, think again. Affection is the female's number one requirement, after respect. If you are affectionate, she will give up shopping and stay thin! Yes, it's true.